My children helped me with dinner last night.  Daughter's job was to put the cut-up potatoes into the pot for me.  Son's job was to mix and stir the gravy.  Having a 3 year old and 17 month old help in the kitchen can be fun, messy, a great learning experience, and downright frustrating for all of us.  They get frustrated easily when I won't let them do things their way, like spill water, play with the raw meat or rummage through the knife drawer.  I get frustrated when they get frustrated or when they don't listen.  But with immense patience, their help in the kitchen slowly turns from burden to blessing.  I love that Bubby can make his own PBJ sandwiches now.  It frees up just a little time for me to make Daughter's lunch.  I love that every time I'm in the kitchen, Daughter comes running in, pushes the little chair up to the counter and peers over eager to help.  I want her to be comfortable and learned in the kitchen.  I want her to take over some meals some...