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So, You Want to be A Stay at Home Mom?

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 What I wish I did to prepare to be a stay at home mom: I was young, naive, and, let's face it, life was very different 19 years ago than it is, today.  Back then, as a young bride, I was religiously and socio-politically conservative, believing strongly that it was best for me to stay home.  I also feared that if I took on a career we'd have gotten too used to the income to allow for me to stay home.  These were all "stuck" mindsets I wish I had the influence, education, and gumption to overcome.   Now that I am older and wiser, hindsight is 20/20.  I always wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, and my husband was supportive of that.  However, I should have been more supportive of him, of us, instead of focusing so heavily on what I wanted.   1.  I wish I had taken getting a career more seriously.  There were options.  For example, I could have simply finished at least an Associates Degree at my local college and then become a teacher's aide at my alma mater.  That wo